What to Expect in 30 Days

Over the next month, you’ll be guided into “Hot and Holy” habits that make dating clearer, more intentional, and a lot more fun—without wasting your time, diluting your standards, or shutting down your desire.

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You’ll be introduced to short, powerful prayers that help you slow down, listen, and invite God into your love life in a way that feels real and sustainable. Rather than long, complicated routines, you’ll receive simple prompts that help you pray for the person you’re dating (or hope to date), release old patterns, and open your heart to healthier connection.

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You’ll also start to shift how you talk and listen. Instead of small talk that goes nowhere, you’ll explore deeper, open-ended questions that gently uncover who someone really is—how they think, what they value, what they’re building, and whether your paths could truly fit together. You’ll have practical ideas for conversations, whether you’re in person, on the phone, or on video.

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Along the way, you’ll be given fun and intentional ways to spend time with someone you’re interested in—simple activities that fit into real life, but still reveal personality, chemistry, communication style, and faith. These moments are designed to help you see the “real them” and let them see the “real you,” without feeling heavy or high-pressure.

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You’ll also experiment with a focused season of connection, where you choose one person to be more consistent and intentional with. Day by day, you’ll notice how regular contact, honest conversation, and shared experiences can deepen emotional and spiritual intimacy—without crossing the physical lines you’ve set for yourself or pretending you’re casual when you’re actually serious.

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By the end of the 30 days, something usually shifts. You begin to recognize who fits your future—and who clearly doesn’t. Your dating style feels more grounded, more confident, and more aligned with both your faith and your desire. And as your heart gets clearer, one quiet but powerful question starts to rise to the surface…

What happens when you finally see the truth—and can’t unsee it?
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