Working with us, you’ll be guided into new habits that make dating clearer, more intentional, and a lot more fun—without wasting your time, diluting your standards, or shutting down your desire.

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You’ll be introduced to short, powerful prayers that help you slow down, listen, and invite God into your love life in a way that feels real and sustainable. Rather than long, complicated routines, you’ll receive simple prompts that help you pray for the person you’re dating (or hope to date), release old patterns, and open your heart to healthier connection.

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You’ll also start to shift how you talk and listen. Instead of small talk that goes nowhere, you’ll explore deeper, open-ended questions that gently uncover who someone really is—how they think, what they value, what they’re building, and whether your paths could truly fit together. You’ll have practical ideas for conversations, whether you’re in person, on the phone, or on video.

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Along the way, you’ll be given fun and intentional ways to spend time with someone you’re interested in—simple activities that fit into real life, but still reveal personality, chemistry, communication style, and faith. These moments are designed to help you see the “real them” and let them see the “real you,” without feeling heavy or high-pressure.

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You’ll also experiment with a focused season of connection, where you choose one person to be more consistent and intentional with. Day by day, you’ll notice how regular contact, honest conversation, and shared experiences can deepen emotional and spiritual and intellectual intimacy—without crossing the physical lines you’ve set for yourself or pretending you’re casual when you’re actually serious.

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Immediately after implementing this system, something will shift. You begin to recognize who fits your future—and who clearly doesn’t. Your dating style feels more grounded, more confident, and more aligned with both your faith and your desire. And as your heart gets clearer, one quiet but powerful question starts to rise to the surface…

What happens when you finally see the truth—and can’t unsee it?

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This is Why I Am So Passionate about What I Do.

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Just want to share a little bit more about my story where I started. I you know, grew up in New York City.
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My mother was a single mom. I had five I have three sisters and a brother and uh yeah three sisters and a brother and I grew up with a lot of cousins and wonderful people. I was never in any real danger praise the Lord. My folks was sweet and good to me. the only thing I would say was probably the downfall of having so much you know so many young people around is I saw a lot of unhealthy dating habits.
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I saw a lot of marriages that didn't last and I saw a lot of bed hopping behavior and seeing that behavior, not really seeing healthy marriages had a huge impact on my behavior as a teenager. I was a very promiscuous teenager. I did a lot of sleeping around. It could have been a lot worse. It wasn't as bad as some but worse than others.
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You know, I was one of those kids that kind of did what I wanted to do. My mother did the best she could. I wasn't a disrespectful child, but I lived the way I thought I wanted to live when really, it was the way the devil wanted me to live. Whether you agree or not, it doesn't matter. That's my understanding of the life I was living at the time.
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Quick fast forward, I had my first baby when I was 15. Very traumatic experience. My daughter's father at the time, he's a wonderful baby daddy. Thank God. He would have her some weekends and when he wasn't working. Very hardworking young man. He's always been hardworking.
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So, that was a blessing. But we had a lot of bad dating habits. I believe the 90s had a huge impact on how people date. Bed hopping behavior was very popular. It was popularized. It was normalized. It was mainstream culture. And it got to a point that in middle school and children are being made fun of for being a virgin, in middle school.
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That's how bad it was. But when I was in school, I remember kids being made fun of that had never had a boyfriend or never had a girlfriend. It's even worse today.
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Children are made fun of in middle school for being virgins and that toxic dating behavior is spread rapidly like a disease. It breaks my heart because people don't realize that these dating habits affect how successful they'll be in a marriage if they choose to move forward with getting married.
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So, I'm a huge advocate for healthy dating habits, to establish the proper foundation for a healthy marriage. The the best thing my husband and I did was get premarital counseling before we got married because we had so much underlying garbage from our sinful lifestyles, our sinful behaviors. We had so many soul ties. We had so many traumatic experiences that we had to overcome in order to have a successful marriage.
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By the grace of God, we had a couple that was willing to counsel us. They provided us with the proper tools to understand what marriage is actually about, what the purpose of marriage is, what to expect, how to deal with hard times. They taught us what commitment means. And really, so far, as I know, my in-laws are the longest married couple I know personally going more than 40 years.
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So, they were a huge catalyst to us getting married as well. But my story can help so many people and I want to use what I've learned and how we've grown to help you because I saw what God was capable of, what the Lord was able to do with the proper tools, with the people with the right heart. When you have a good heart and you want the best for yourself and your spouse and your family, the Lord can work with that.
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He the Lord, is close to a contrite broken heart. That's what the Word says. We talk about that in church. God is close to a contrite heart. So that's what allowed me to get close enough to God to hear his voice clearly. Being brokenhearted about the sin I was in. Being tired of being misused and abused, broken hearted about our own decisions, by a lifestyle I chose to live. I got tired.
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So when I got tired and I turned to the Lord, he was able to clean me up and make me into a woman I never thought possible, a woman I never imagined. And he did a work on my husband, made my husband into a man he and I never imagined him to be.

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We met in 1999, so we've known each other for 27 years, but we've been married for 20 of those years. Praise the Lord. But we've overcome that sin by trusting in the Lord, by getting close to God, by developing a an intimate relationship with the Lord. So that is the secret sauce to whatever struggles you're having.
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And that is what I want to help people do. Find you discover yourself, discover the Lord and develop an unyielding intimate relationship with the Lord so that anything and everything is possible when you look to the Lord and you know that He loves you and you know that He wants more and better for you than you want for yourself.
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I think it's such a powerful knowledge, that is what eternal life is, is knowing the Lord personally knowing His love for you and trusting in that. So that is my testimony. That's why I do what I do.

So, make sure, if you haven't done that yet, join the Facebook group, the Christian Professionals Love Lab, so that you can get the tools you need to become the person God called you to be.
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Not just to be married, but just so that you know Him personally. He wants to be your Prize. He wants to be your best friend. He wants to be your main thing. So, let the Lord do that. Let Him be that for you, get to know Him. He will not fail you. He is faithful.
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He will not misuse you and abuse you the way human beings have. Go in get the free PDF Bible study Becoming the Person Blueprint study guide and let it be a blessing to you.
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